日本人女性と結婚した外国人男性に聞きました!

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Who did answer to Kaori's Questions?
Country
国籍 現住所 回答者数
イギリス 日本
海外
アメリカ アメリカ
フランス 日本
イタリア イタリア
? 日本
How did you meet your Japanese wife?
・Secret (sorry - not for a bad reason)
・My Japanese wife and I met through mutual friends when I was living in Japan.
・Was Drunk at a club near the military base where i lived.
・my interest for japan grew, so i tried to have all the available informations about japan in france... then i tried to contact japanese pple, in france the sex pressure is inexistent, so talking with a woman as a friend is completely normal.... i decided to cntact a japanese person to have a closer point of view about japan, japanese culture, the language etc... we spoke for a couple of years on the internet. then she came to france to learn french for a year or so, this is when i first met her. and we stayed together since, 7-8 years now.
・We got to know on the web! incredible.... after meeting her I asked her to marry me.
・She was working at a store, and from time to time, we would chat.(in Japan)
友人からの紹介、クラブで飲んでて、インターネットで。。。 素敵な出会いは本当にどこにあって、いつ訪れるのかわからないものですよね。。



What made you to decide to get marry with her?
・I felt amazing when I was with her, and still do. I can't imagine ever being with anybody else.
・I asked my wife to marry me because we had a lot of things in common, besides she is funny, smart and very pretty. We always take time to ensure the other person is happy.
I was never as happy with anyone as i was with her.
we knew each other for a very long time, the question came up, we married, no big ceremony, more like french style than japanese style with a ceremony as an occidental, and a ceremony as a shinto
・I decide to marry her because of her honesty, sincerity, her sweet personality.
・By shear chance, we had more things in common than just dumb luck could explain.
この人と一緒になりたい、家庭を築きたい、幸せになりたい!って思ってもらえるのはこれほどまでにも、人生生きていて素敵な瞬間はありませんよね。。密かに、Kaori は、トラディッショナルなプロポーズを期待していたりします。。方膝を床につけて 「Will you marry me? 」 って、ものすごく愛している人に言われる瞬間ってどんなに素敵で感動的なのかしら!



Why you didnt marry with western woman?
・I was living in Japan and go to school. I ended up staying there for twelve years.
・I didnt think asian or western, I just felt like i was in love.
・i guess i have many opportunities to marry a woman of my country, i don't think it would be too difficult... but i don't think with this pattern, like western occidental, my wife should be this this and that... we met it happened, i accepted the situation and married a japanese woman.
・Western woman are more agrassive, too arrogant (especially italians) not all of course.
・Not physically nor emotionally attracted to women of the Western World.
国籍関係なしに、たまたま強烈に愛した女性、結婚したいと思った女性が日本人だったって回答が多いですね。



Do you have any children?
If you have children,please tell me yours and your wife's eyes colors and your kid's.
Which language your kids are speaking?
Your kids are little bit smaller than western kids?
husband's eyes wife's eyes their children's eyes language smaller?
blueish gree brown eyes and brown hair English/Japanese
mix of green, blue and gray English/Japanese average for western kids
Light brown Japanese(understand English) growing normally
やっぱり、どう頑張っても、私たちの子供は茶系なんですね。。。少しショック!



If you dont live in Japan, how often your family go back to japan?
・We live in Japan.
・We currently dont live in Japan, but we visit every summer, my wife and kids spend about two and half months there every year.
・well this is our first year not in japan and here is really close to japan so its cheap. she has been twice and i have been to about 7 times. we plan on about 3-4 trips a year, depending on my work schedule.
・we live in japan
・We visit Japan once a year at least, we do it twice a year when possible.
We live in Milano, because like to my wife
・Live in Japan
やっぱり、海外で暮らすことになっても、1年に一度は家族や友人に会いに日本に帰りたい・・・ Kaori は、そういったことを理解してくれる男性と一緒になります。。



Do you have any problem with your wife? such as language problem, different customs, food, religion..etc
No. We accept each other for who we are. That's why we got married. I'm vegetarian, but my wife loves meat and fish. It's never been a problem. I study Japanese, she speaks English fluently now.
I don't have any problems with my wife, I speak japanese pretty well and her english is very good.
・my wife always complains that she cannot express herself in english very well. but i think she does very well. i think the way japanese seem to hide their problems and try to deal with them alone is a bigger problem.
・i have a lot of problems with my wife, but she probably does not about it... i think japan has no liberties, so i think my wife is not free... in france there is equality in between the men and the woman, in japan the question is a bit different.
・Is difficult to understand in general, my wife speak very well Italian and I'm learning Japanese, religion is not a problem, but understand differen custom for many people is difficult, I love Japan and all the custom, I never impose my way of living to others, but I know in mixed couples is the main issue, missunderstanding.
・Wife's level of english is not perfect, but we do talk and understand each other. Most other aspects of our lives are good.



Do you want to live in Japan? you think?
・Yes. I love being in Japan.
・My wife and I have land in Japan and are in the process of moving there, our house should be finished in the next couple of years.
・i cannot wait to live in japan again. it was one of the best experiences of my life. other than 11 months in guam that is the only place that we have lived. it is a great place to raise children. its safe, there are lots of parks, and the weather allows for lots of different activities.
・not anymore
・I would love to work and live in Japan, is my dream ....
・I will continue to work and live here as long as possible.



Does your japanese wife have job? or she is housewife?
・She recently quit work because we want to have kids. (in Japan)
・My wife currently runs the home, but if she wants to work she could.(not in Japan)
・she doesnt have a job. she has been a house wife for 6 yrs. i would like her to get a job now to get her out of the house and have a chance to meet new people. being a housewife in a foreign country seems to be a big reason for problems among many international families.(not in Japan)
・my wife works, we have no kids.(in Japan)
・My wife work.(not in Japan)
Housewife(in Japan)
現在のところ、6件の回答のうち4件が専業主婦ですね。



What do you think about marriage with Japanese woman as western man.
・I don't think I'm 'a Western man married to a Japanese woman'. I'm married to the woman I love. Nationality, race, religion - it's not an issue.
・Over all I think mixed marriages are the best, you get a better insight of the world and what really makes people happy.
・again i dont feel it is about japanese/western as it is about finding the person that is right for you.
・nothing more than marrying a western woman as a westerner
・For me is fantastic to marry a Japanese woman, but I think can work well in few cases, is very difficult. Not everybody are intelligent enough.
・As an American living here for a long time, I think I was prepared to marry a Japanese girl. But it had to be a girl that I beilieved would make a good wife.



Are you happy now?
・Yes, I'm very happy!
・I'm very happy now.
・like right at this moment? well yah. i am at work. we never argue when i am at work. lol
not now
・I'm very happy, after five years.
・When I look at my children, I know that it was a great thing. I am happy most of the time.
やっぱり他人事とはいえ、日本人女性と結婚した男性が、今とっても幸せだよって! って言ってくれるのは、ものすごく嬉しいものです。


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